Sunday, 3 August 2014

Preparing for baby, as cheaply as possible!

As I'm in the process of kitting out Child-The-Second at present, I thought now might be a good time to share some ideas I've come across about doing so on the cheap. It's a text heavy post so I hope you stick with me. I'll try to put in as many pictures and links as I can to brighten things up, though!

The following list is just my own opinion on what's necessary, and other places will tell you different things so pick and choose according to your own lifestyle. Remember - the shops will still be open after baby is born, so if you find that you're really lacking in something, you can grab it at a later date!
Daughter and I, all wrapped up at 12 months.
  • Sling - Daughter wouldn't be put down at any point (seriously - I slept sitting up with her over my shoulder for at least six months) and I couldn't have kept my life running if I hadn't been able to get on with things hands-free. My Papoozle was a godsend, but there are hundreds of different types of slings out there and the best way of finding one to suit you is to look up sling libraries in your area. The list I've just linked to is not comprehensive, so if there are none posted within easy distance, it's still worth a search on facebook for separately run groups, or private meetings. The operators can advise you on the different kinds of slings available. From stretchy wraps to woven wraps, mei-tais to Tulas, the main thing to be aware of is that baby should be close enough to kiss, facing Mum (whether worn on the front or back) and the legs and bum should form an 'M' position.
  • Car seat - This one really is non-negotiable if you drive (and some hospitals won't let you leave until they've seen the baby in a car seat, whether you're driving home or not!) but see below for ways to make the most of this investment.
  • Pram - Possibly the most cost-effective way to get a pram is to buy a car seat which clips into a pram base. Obviously, it's not advisable to buy car seats second hand as you don't know if they've been involved in an accident, but if you search summer/January sales, you should be able to find one at a discount. Then it's just a case of buying used pram accessories for your chosen model - ebay or Gumtree are good places to start, and you might even get lucky at a car boot sale.

    The pram also doubles as somewhere to put the baby if you're lucky enough to have one that will be laid flat without screaming the ears off every living soul in a thousand mile radius... unlike Daughter, whose aversion to being put down led to us giving our pram away and using the sling exclusively. This is another way to cut down on costs if you think you can manage it, by the way. If you have a good sling designed for the purpose, you can continue carrying your child well into toddler-hood. We successfully lugged Daughter around until she was two-and-a-half years old, at which point she refused to be carried any more. In terms of weight and height, even now at well past three years, I could easily get her back in the sling if she was tired enough to let me.

    In any case, though we'd initially planned not to bother with a pram this time, we were able to source one for free from Gumtree and intend to use in place of a moses basket for when baby is asleep downstairs. The moses basket, by the way, is the single biggest waste of money I came across when we bought things for Daughter.
  • Cot -  If you're not planning on co-sleeping (which is really useful if you're breastfeeding, but it's not for everyone) then you'll need a cot. You might have read that co-sleeping isn't safe but if you think it's something you'd like to do then look up ways of safely co-sleeping. Anyways, re. the cot, you can pick the frames up for free, or very cheaply on Gumtree/freecycle and then just buy a new mattress. Again, with my velcro baby I wished I hadn't bothered for the first six months, but now I'm glad I spent the money. I bought a second hand Stokke Sleepi which grew from a crib to a cot, to a toddler bed to a children's bed. Were we not putting baby 2 into it, Daughter could have been in there until she was 10 and following that, it can be turned into two chairs so we really will be getting our money's worth.

  • Bedding - I found baby sleeping bags a godsend when Daughter finally went into a cot as she's such a wriggler, but if you're not keen on those then in addition to the sheets you'd need anyway, a couple of cellular/crocheted blankets are great. I liked to have two of each (one on, one in the wash).
  • Muslin cloths - These save a fortune in baby wipes and kitchen roll! If you're using washable nappies, you can even use them as extra padding for night time use. Before you buy any, it's a great idea to ask on freecycle/Gumtree/facebook selling pages for used ones. Chances are that they'll be grotty, but often people are willing to give them away for the postage and they can always be thrown in the washing machine with a box of dye to brighten them up again.
  • Nappies/wipes/bum cream - Reusables aren't for everyone, but you can save a small fortune by using them and many councils offer a lump sum towards the purchase price as it saves them money on landfill. I picked some up second hand for £60. When I thought I wasn't having any more babies I sold them on for £50 so £10 for almost three years of nappies was awesome. There are used cloth nappy boards on facebook, but I find they're priced for fluffy bum addicts. Gumtree seems to be the cheapest place to go. If you're still not convinced, check out Phoebe's post about how easy it is to use cloth.

    Otherwise, Aldi nappies are cheap and very good. If you can stock up during their baby events then they're even better value for money. Reusable wipes are something I didn't know about last time round but I'm giving them a try now - a friend with an overlocker has run some old towels through it to make them for me and I plan to use them in cool camamile tea with a drop of tea-tree oil in. For nappy rash cream, I can't recommend Vaseline highly enough, or if you're breastfeeding, Lansinoh lanolin cream does an awesome job too (see below) and you're likely to have it in.
  • Nappy bag - If you're using reusables, then you need a few 'wet bags' to carry soiled nappies home in. Other than that, any bag big enough to stash nappies, wipes, a change of clothes for baby, a change of top for you if you're breastfeeding and space for a bottle if you're not, will do. Don't be suckered into expensive ones with compartments etc. - there's really no need. If you're brave, you could have a go at making one too - I did one which unzipped along the corners to become a changing mat and we really loved it.
  • Clothes - these are a 'blink and you'll miss them' sort of thing as they're grown out of so quickly. Check out charity shops and ask on freecycle/gumtree in case anyone is giving some away. If the ones you're offered are the 'wrong' colour then you can just dye them. For us, there was no point in spending a fortune on cute little jeans and things as they're such a pain to get on and off that they never got worn in the early months. We just had all in one suits until about six months old when things started to calm down a little and Daughter stopped screaming when she was laid flat.
  • Feeding - If you're planning on breastfeeding then Lansinoh cream is amazing for chapped nipples and I always got on better with reusable breast pads to stop leakage onto clothes, but the disposable ones from Lansinoh are great too, if a little pricey. Treat yourself to some lovely nursing tops and bras and don't beat yourself up if it doesn't work out. Breastfeeding is a skill, and again, it's not for everyone. If you decide to go down the bottle route, see if you can borrow a few different types of bottles from friends and when choosing a formula, buy a few pre-made cartons from different brands to see which baby takes to best. I made the mistake of buying a massive tub of one when I made the switch and Daughter wouldn't take it. I ended up using it in the bread machine for about a year later :P Once you know which make of bottles/formula you're likely to use, invest in around 6 bottles and teats, as well as a steam steriliser - I used a microwave one for speed and because I could keep it in the microwave when I wasn't using it. It was cheaper than a counter-top one and took up less space. Aldi/Lidl often have bottles in their baby events, or you could look for second hand, sterilise and then just buy new teats, but it depends on what you're comfortable with. 
And that's all I can think of for the baby stage.

What were your essential buys? 

Monday, 14 July 2014

Gardening with preschoolers

I love growing vegetables. I think it's the part of me that grew up reading the likes of E J Taylor's Ivy Cottage and George and Matilda Mouse by Heather Buchanan ... In any case, gardening is something that I was always keen to get Daughter involved with. Aside from the obvious benefits of learning where their food comes from, I think that waiting for plants to grow can help to teach patience. A little watering can is also a very handy distraction for when you need five minutes of alone-time in the garden. Oh yes, that little metal container has let me finish many a cuppa. Fill it up, hand it over and ask them to go and water the plant furthest from where you are.

Happy days.

In any case, when choosing the plants to grow this year, I tried to learn from the errors of last season. I went really over the top, trying to have as many home-grown items as possible. Daughter didn't really notice - there was too much going on that she couldn't really take pride in any of the produce. This year we planted the somewhat reduced crop of radishes and peas - partially due to moving into the new house late in the growing season and partially because those were the first things which sprung to mind.

We bought a pack of multi-coloured radish seeds (for a bit of variety), and just used a pack of dried peas that I had in the store cupboard. I think they were from the Co-op in Norway, but any dried peas should work - Norwegian or not.

The peas, admittedly, are very slow growing once they're in the ground, but by soaking them in water before planting them, you can see them start to germinate. They're great for explaining the process of seed to plant.

The radishes have been the real stars this year though - quick growing and tolerant to my child's enthusiastic watering, they've survived the Scottish climate well and provided a great crop. My only issue with them is... well, other than sliced in a salad, they have limited usage. Whilst hours of trawling various cookery sites produced limited success in terms of recipes I could actually use, I did manage to stumble across the Japanese-style pickled radish - a quick and easy preserve with a fridge life of three to four weeks.

This is especially good for making with smalls as the liquid turns from clear to pink when it hits the radishes, giving the jar a lovely rose colour. To make these, you need:

100mls clear vinegar (cider, rice wine, white wine, distilled white... whatever really)
100mls water
10 pepper corns
1 tsp salt
1 tbsp honey.

Slice your radishes thinly and pop them in a jar. Add the pepper corns (and if you fancy something a bit different you could add some slices of garlic and/or a few chilli seeds) and set to one side. In a pan, heat the remaining ingredients until they've got a gentle boil going and then pour over your radishes in their jar. Pop a lid on, wait for it to cool and then stick it in the fridge overnight. They're ready to eat the next day and go very well with Asian food. 

Any ideas what I can do with the rest of our bumper crop?

Wednesday, 9 July 2014

Healthy Summer Snacks For Kids

Some of you might remember a post from Lily Helitzer about Making Food Fun. Well, Lily's back with some words of wisdom regarding healthy summer snacks.

Summer is a fruitful time of year. There are masses of fresh, healthy produce on the market and there really is no better time to encourage your kids not only to eat well, but learn about their food too. Not only will this keep them occupied while school is out but it will give them a good understanding of the foods they are eating and their respective health benefits which will stand them in good stead for a well balanced diet in later life. In the here and now they will need lots of energy to fuel their long, hot, hectic summer days so here are some sin free summer snacks that your kids should be enjoying this years and the ways that you can make them fun to learn about, as well as fun to eat.

Berry picking
Summer is prime time for berry picking – strawberries, blueberries, raspberries and cranberries all come into season during the hotter months and whilst you can buy at most local farmers markets, there is something special about harvesting your own food. An afternoon spent in a strawberry field won't just leave you with lots of a delicious berries to take home but it will inspire your kids to learn about where their food comes from. Being outdoors and getting some gentle exercise is also great for their general health and will boost their vitamin D intake as they soak up the sunshine. From a dietary perspective there are a wealth of health benefits to be found in berries. Not only are they packed with antioxidants but they are thought to fight off free radical cells responsible for causing diseases as well as improving cognitive function and maintaining joint and muscle health. Berries (particularly blueberries) are so rich in nutrients that they are being hailed as the next 'superfood' and are being recommended to people with immune deficiency problems that may be caused by health issues or lifestyle problems (such as overcoming addiction). There are so many things you can do with them - pies, jams, smoothies and toppings for cereals and yogurts are just a few ways of incorporating berries into your kids' diet.
Grow salad
Studies show that kids who take an active role in growing their own food have healthier diets in later life and summer time is the perfect time to get them involved with growing their own produce. Planning, planting, maintaining and harvesting their own vegetable patch could be the perfect way to keep them occupied during the summer vacation and luckily many salad plants such as tomatoes and cucumbers tend to grow quite quickly so your greenfingered little ones won't have to wait long for their produce to arrive. Not only are salad plants generally low fat and high in water content (great for keeping them hydrated in the hot weather) but green leafy salad such as lettuce and spinach are packed full of fiber and iron whilst tomatoes are thought to contain powerful antioxidants and even components that can help protect their skin against the sun.

Make burgers
Nothing tastes better than a juicy burger cooked al fresco on a warm summer evening. Although we hear a lot of bad press about the high saturated fat content of burgers, they do have health benefits and can be adapted to be lower in fat. Lean meats such as turkey mince automatically reduce fat content whilst more traditional hamburgers do contain iron and protein (essential for boosting energy levels and red blood cell production) so aren't all bad. Enlist your little ones in the mixing, molding and shaping of the burgers – they will love getting their hands messy. Substituting binding agents such as egg and breadcrumbs for apple sauce and other healthy alternatives can be another way to increase the goodness within them.

Create colorful popsicles
Keeping cool and hydrated in the summer is important and sometimes your kids can be so busy playing that they forget to come indoors for a drink. Becoming dehydrated won't just make them grouchy and tired, but it can be dangerous too so it is important to get fluids into them even if you have to be sneaky about it. Making popsicles is fun and there are literally hundreds of simple recipes and flavors that you can make with just about anything in your cupboards. Some summer staples for your freezer may include watermelon popsicles, frozen lemonade popsicles and even frozen yogurts for a refreshing calcium hit. These are all great ways of keeping your kids cool and hydrated that may seem a lot more appealing than a glass of tap water.  

'Superfoods Everyone Needs' - WebMD - Accessed 17 June 2014.
'Medical Detox Centres' - - Accessed 17 June 2014.
'Health Benefits of Wild Blueberries - Study' - Eurekalert - Accessed 17 June 2014.
'A Kids' Garden Grows Healthier Eating Habits' - Rodale News - Accessed 17 June 2014.
'How my diet can protect me from sunburn' - Worlds Healthiest Foods - Accessed 17 June 2014.
'Any Benefits in Eating Hamburger?' - LiveStrong - Accessed 17 June 2014.
'Dehyrdration Symptoms' - MayoClinic - Accessed 17 June 2014.
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'The American Heart Association Teaching Starter Garden Kit' - Burpee - Accessed 17 June 2014.

Lily Helitzer is a health and nutrition writer who works on behalf of Kwikmed, an FDA-approved pharmacy which offers an accessible and safe outlet to buy Cialis and other prescription medication.

Wednesday, 2 July 2014

Beach Combing Collage

Children – in my albeit limited – experience, like to come home from walks with pockets full of treasure. I’ve covered things to do withpine-cones in the past, and how great shells can be for water play, but there’s always more than that… driftwood, heather roots, sea glass, leaves and flowers.

And rocks. Oh heavens, the rocks. I mean, I’ve got boxes full of the things – seriously. I reckon 90% of what we took with us when we moved house was boxes of rocks. To make matters worse Daughter remembers them all, so you can’t just subtly drop them into the drive way or rockery as you go – hole-in-the-pocket-Shawshank-style.

Anyway, I’m still working on a solution for the whole rock dilemma, but I thought I’d share one of the collages we made when we were staying in Denmark. This one is possibly my favourite because honestly? It’s pretty and frame-able and done entirely by Daughter – it’s something truly special and unique from our time on Fanoe, rather than one of a gabillion crayon squiggles on printer paper that I’m frequently gifted at home. My only regret is that I didn’t have some nice backing card with me, but then, the whole thing rather took me by surprise. I didn’t know that the girl was going to come up with something so nice.

I literally just sat her at the table with a box full of items, some PVA and a sheet of paper. I guess she remembered the button treethat we made a while back and drew her inspiration from there… though I like to think she was prompted by the landscape. In any case, I suppose my point here is that sometimes it’s nice just to let children create, because when they’re given free-reign, they rarely fail to amaze.

Monday, 30 June 2014

Chocolate box shape matching

This is a cheap, easy activity – presuming you’ve got the tray from a box of chocolates lying around. If you’ve not been as big of a piggie as me – stuffing a whole box in one sitting - a sheet of paper with a variety of shapes drawn on would work just as well. If you’re drawing a tray, it might be nice to do different sizes of the same shape – this could add an element of big vs. small to the game.

Essentially, you just need to give the tray to the child and point to the various shapes.
“What is this shape called?”
“A circle.”
“Can you find any circles in this room/the garden/the car/the magazine that we can put here?”

When they’ve found something, put it in the relevant shaped hole and ask about the next one.

Rinse. Repeat.

N.B. You will note that the tray in our picture contains Silica gel. I would not advise using this in a game with children, obviously. Apparently though, I am not as good at this as Daughter is so…yeah… my shapes included toxic substances. 

Friday, 27 June 2014

Salt Dough

As one of the oldest, best-tested methods of occupying a toddler, salt dough remains one of those things which I bring out in times of desperation. You know… those times like today when you’re stuck in waiting for an engineer to bring dial-up speed internet to your hut in the Scottish wilderness. 

The recipe is fairly simple, and at a push can be made without salt (because let’s be honest – how many people keep kilos of salt beneath the kitchen sink?) if you hold back on the water and accept that you’re going to have to chuck the lot out at the end of the play session. The recipe I find works best is as follows, but there are hundreds out there and a quick search should reveal one which suits your store cupboard/any gluten-free requirements.

2 cups plain white flour
1 cup salt
1 cup (ish) of water

Mix the dry ingredients together and add the water a little at a time. It’ll start to clump and look as if it needs more water, but that’s the time to get your hands in and knead it all up. It’ll need about ten minutes of working before it’s ready to use, but it’s not the end of the world if you can’t manage this – little hands playing will do the job of the kneading.

Some ideas on what to do with it:

Use kitchen equipment – rolling pins, cookie cutters, a garlic press or fork… anything that can be used to manipulate the dough. A set of cutlery might help to make the dough accessible for children who don’t like the feel (like me! – I really can’t stand it under my nails!).

Use props from outside – we had great success when we added shells from our beach combing trips. The best result was when we make snails by rolling out a sausage and sticking a conch on top. You could also just mash the dough onto the tray/table and use it to stand dry twigs up in, making a forest for any toy dinosaurs/animals.

Make keepsakes – how about printing hands and feet on the dough and then leaving it to dry/baking it. There’s a wonderful example of this on Phoebe’s blog which is well worth a look.

Use toy cars – roll the dough out as flat as possible and make tyre tracks in it. If you’ve got a particularly obliging hamster/guinea pig, you could see if they’re willing to stroll across to add their footprints to the mix.

If that’s not a compelling enough reason to give salt dough a go, how about the fact that I’ve been able to organise all my photographs from the last year and write this post in the time Daughter has been occupied. And she’s still going.  

Saturday, 14 June 2014

Hiatus. Again.

Another break in proceedings, though this one will likely yield more posts rather than fewer now that I can make the announcement.

Daughter will have a sibling as of early December.

After swearing 'never again' ... I guess, here we are again.

Wish me luck, dear interwebs... wish me luck.